Tuesday, January 17, 2017
Indeed, ultimately, it is a task we all must take seriously, and any of us, all of us, who are citizens, would do well to also raise our hands and swear to do what ever is in our power to watch over the Constitution. And when anyone's right to speak is threatened, when anyone's right to assemble is challenged, when anyone's right to worship as they please (or not at all if they so choose) is ignored, each and all of us must speak up and speak out. Regardless of the individual who takes the oath on the steps of the Capitol.
Wednesday, December 28, 2016
Monday, December 19, 2016
It goes on to talk about mistletoe and Santa Claus, as well as the parish priest coming by to offer a blessing on the household. I’m not sure if it’s a very accurate picture of Christmas in Killarney, or anywhere else in Ireland! But it is lots of fun!
Thursday, December 8, 2016
Barbourville, in the southeast corner of Kentucky, was (and is) a long way from the small Vermont town where she grew up. But when she took a teaching position there at a small liberal arts college and began teaching English literature and grammar to would be teachers, business folks and others, she settled in. So did my Dad, who after a four decade career as a pastor, started fresh teaching religion and speech at the same college. They joined a church, began to make friends, and gained some notoriety as excellent professors.
But then their world was turned upside down when Dad was struck by a drunk driver and almost killed. For seventeen sometimes long years, he was an invalid--a paraplegic, with serious brain injuries. But, with a tremendous amount of volunteer help from church members and college friends, as well as some terrific professional caregivers, Mother managed to keep him at home until he died of cancer in 2009.
When Dad's accident happened, Mother needed to learn to drive. She had never gotten a driver's license. So two or three friends taught her the rudiments of operating a car. One of her coaches frequently took her to the local cemetery to practice. "You all can't kill anybody here," he told her. She was a good student, and got her license to drive. I think through the years she was as proud of that license as she was her PhD!
She retired, and at seventy-five, took up the dulcimer! She even played with a local group--the Knox County Porch Pickers. Amazing! She read voraciously (still does) and worked at the local historical society as a docent. But all that started to change a bit ago. She could no longer drive, and needed some extra help. So the move to Florida where my wife Linda and I live.
On the last full day we were in Barbourville, Mother and my brother Bob and I went to the cemetery where she had learned to drive, and where Dad is buried. She wanted to tell him goodbye. "He was my guy," she said. And so he was. She bought a single red rose, and placed it on the grave. Not a whole bunch of roses, Dad was rather frugal, he wouldn't have approved of such extravagance. So a single bud. "I'm moving to Florida," she told him. She's made us promise to bury her ashes next to his when the time comes. She even has a headstone next to his. It's a promise none of us are eager to keep. But when we need to do so we will.
We shared a few stories as we stood in the damp greyness of the late afternoon, and then we walked back to the car. And the next morning, with some hired help, we packed up the truck, which Linda drove to Florida, and then we left town.
Somewhere on I-75 Mother said to me, "Barbourville seems so long ago now. So far away." And I know it is. But I also know it will never be far from her heart. She loved that little Appalachian town---and, as we saw so many, many times over the years, they loved her right back.
"Bless their hearts!"